婚礼歌手

亚当·桑德勒和德鲁·巴利摩尔1998年的初次合作，因对《初恋五十次》印象良好，故而一直想看。亚当·桑德勒那时看上去还想走英俊小生路线，巴利摩尔不好看，胜在甜美可爱。情节，反正就是浪漫轻喜剧，没有特别好看也没有特别不好看。唯一不明白的是，为什么1998年的电影看上去像80年代的影片，是否电影公司压箱底作品被翻出来上映呢？不知道。

“你是否爱一个人并不体现在她怎么看你 而在于她面前 你的表现如何.”

大致就是这么说的

很有道理

你和你的爱人是否相配

就要看你们是否能够在对方面前表现自如

不自知的将自己最优秀的一面展现给对方

那是一种吸引力

就是为什么在你爱人面前你总是很迷人

那就是爱.

that's my opinion.

 

剧中主角的职业让我觉得很温暖

和中国不同

他就是担当着婚礼司仪的职责

一个好的职业是不是就应该取决它的薪资呢？

或者是这份职业为自己、为他人带来的幸福指数?

有时,人的心灵总是和自己的行为背道而驰

男主角也迷惘过

为了money

他到wall street找工作

然而他在面试时的表现仍然跟着自己的心

他什么都不会

他所拥有的一切都和音乐有关

其实音乐就是他的货币...

有时 钱确实是衡量优秀与否的标准

然而 钱并不能代表一个人的价值.

现在不是流行评比痛苦指数么？

有车有房

幸福却远了

可怜的在这个钢筋丛林里奔波的都市人

争着抢着把自己关到贷款买房的圈子里

好可怜. 也好无奈.


看了上映日期 已经是十年前的电影了

不仅是部好电影

所有的插曲都经久不衰...

力荐

终于看完了《婚礼歌手》发现自己还是热衷于爱情喜剧的~热衷于那种像是品尝奶糖一般温馨甜蜜的感觉~以前听闻我们adam是很厉害的创作歌手 今天终于见识到了~当他在飞机上弹着吉他为爱人献唱时 我已经哭的一塌糊涂了~只因这份爱情太迷人太完美~~自己又一次被打动 心脏加速跳动难以平息了~嘎嘎

~当我在10个月前开始疯狂的寻找他的电影时 我就知道我被他深深吸引了~注定摆脱不了他的魅力 发下花痴吧 世间怎会有如此可爱的男人......

关于内容我不愿多说 如果你决定看这部电影 记住 带上你一颗感伤的心 对真爱的一片赤诚~

那么便可以深刻的感受音乐与爱情的水乳交融~

片尾 我们的男主角唱了一首歌 名字应该叫做“grow old with you ”

歌曲太美太美~~ SO 牢记它的旋律 时常挂在嘴边 轻声哼唱

I wanna make you smile whenever you're sad
当你忧伤时候我要让你欢笑


Carry you around when your arthritis is bad
当你关节痛时我会带你到处走走


All I wanna do
我想要的只是


is grow old with you
和你一起慢慢变老


I'll get you medicine
when you tummy aches
当你肚子痛时我会为你拿药


Build you a fire if the furnace breaks
如果壁炉坏了我会做个新的


Oh It could be so nice growing old with you
哦~和你一起慢慢变老该是多么美妙


I'll miss you kiss you
我会想念你,亲吻你


Give you my coat when you are cold
你冷的时候我会将我的外套给你


I’ll need you feed you
需要你,满足你


Even let ya hold the remote control
甚至受你摆布...遥控...


So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink
让我在厨房的水槽里洗盘子


Put you to bed if you’ve had too much to drink
当你喝得太多时把你放到床上


I could be the man who grows old with you
我可以成为与你携老的男人


I wanna grow old with you
和你一起慢慢变老

先看了初恋五十次。然后看这个。
下在touch上，分两次看完的。看到最后飞机上的煽情桥段，居然见鬼般还有点想哭。
这么多年了，我还是那个被老桥段一煽就要流泪的土气姑娘。一点进步都没有。
这两个家伙也太般配了吧……为什么不在一起捏……

让人相当无语的一部片子，温情一般般，浪漫谈不上，也没有任何搞笑的成分，情节僵硬，大家都像没进入状态一样,包括Ross的老妈，汗。而且看到一半才发现原来这部片以前竟然看过，能让人这么没有印象，无语。如果这部片是为了6年后两人再次合作的《初恋50次》预热，那没话说。

   After Robbie was abadoned by Linda at the wedding,he laid in the bed in the basement,and he said to Sammy:"I don't have anything to offer."
   Then he met Julia.He finally got something to offer to that girl.Actually,Robbie was helping other people in town all the time.He is a wedding singer,who bring joy to guests;He has a dream as a rock star and is talented at writting songs.
   He is an orphan.Mom and Daddy left at ten.He has been hurt.But he is the one who always make other people happy.I think that's noble. Many people who got hurt grow to be cynical and defended,self-involved,and lose faith in love. Robbie thinks in a positive way,and he still hold hope for true love,before the wedding day.He got mad,sad,felt deeply betrayed,and began to doubt himeself as a wedding singer and even a helper without any payment. We know how much love can hurt."Take an instance,me." When Robbie sang that angry song"I used to love but it was a joke and I want a bullet shot in my head"in the hall in front of Julia,I think that's the moment Julia fell in love with him.So did I.I usually into guys with hurt and a high-esteem.I guess that's the self-rescue part,you will cure by rescuing somebody else hurting. Robbie met Julia,who looked him in the eye that we all read the message"You are so special to me".And Robbie went to pursue Julia at the last moment.
   I think that's the difference between men and women.When a man get hurt,he will move to save another girl in need,so as to cure himself and felt his worth once more.But when a woman gets hurt,she wouldn't get cure by loving another man,c'z that's not appropriate for a moman to be active and take into the" rescuer" role.She is espected to stay there in the blue and wait someone to show up and save her. It's getting helpless.And I hate myself.Anyway,Julia is not the girl like me.I won't let my life depend on someone else to save me,which by the way,romance only happens in the movie.
   I'm not Julia,and I can't be Robbie who meets Julia and be treasured and he earned his welfare by taking some moves.He is a man.That's what man should do.I don't know if I ever gonna meet some guy who is attracted by my loneliness and misery because there's anything else I can offer,to the opposite sex. I have a kind of pretty face,and a not so perfect body,a great listen when I concentrate,a hard-working student but that ambitiousness is not appreciated for most men. I learned self-doubt after the hurt by love,and become someone who is not me.And now I don't like the way I am.I had a fierce fight in the inner world every moment in the past few days.I even despise myself for thinking so negtively.Is there anyone who can understand the complicated contradiction I've been suffering?
   You might disgrace me but I'm the one losing faith in true love.I believe there's true love,I just don't believe that would happen on me.I'm also cursed for not helping other people,but I got my own ways to get out,by pulling myself higher and higher.A tough way,but at least it works some time.It isn't working now,and I'm back to that needy,desperate coward again.Hi me,all I'm thinking is that I don't deserve to have a guy to treasure me,looking me in the eye like saying"You are the most beautiful thing in the world.",someone who holds me and say"everything will be allright." I would like to do anything for him,too.But no,there's none,all me.I'm a loser.That's what they called. If love was red,I must be color-blind.
   There is tons of great speech you can throw on me,like"if you try you will find",or "don't feel inferior,you are not that bad",or"be yourself and good things will follow"...that doesn't help really.
    I'm going to live,whatever.Whether to success or lose in the end,it won't improve anything to self-esteem.I still gonna to abase myself for such struggle in vain.For not feeling confident in prior,for having so much contrary thoughts in head.That's me,and that's not cool.
    Perfectism,they call it.It rules all over me.Very mean superego.Mother never loved her much and daddy never kept in touch,that's why she shies away from human affection.
    I'm the kid in emptiness,like Robbie.He finds away by writting songs and helping people.I find my way lifting up.We are both innocent children abandoned by parents.Why do they do that to us? I know I'm not the only one,and there are more even worse. The absense of parents definitely effects on children's development,and I don't know how many of them has made a way out.I still went back to the homeless little girl sometimes.
    Can I help ? Maybe some day I will.I will.
Be careful,don't be hurt by love.But sometimes it's just destiny.You can't run off,it will chase you.Eat you in and out.
    "I'm so in love with you."Wish someday I could say that.Wish I have the strength to make it till that day.